You bring the love, I’ll bring the words.

Vows by Van Otterloo is for couples who want their ceremony to feel real, personal, and unmistakably them. I strive to write and officiate thoughtful, modern ceremonies rooted in your story — not templates, not clichés, completely unique to you. Whatever your love looks like, I want to help you say the words that actually mean something in a way that feels true to you.

EXPERIENCES I OFFER

Custom Wedding Ceremonies: fully written and personalized ceremony tailored to your story and values

Private Elopements and Intimate Weddings: small, meaningful ceremonies with the same care, intention, and attention to detail

Vow Writing Support*: guidance if you are struggling to find the words

Religious, Spiritual, Blended, Secular, or Non-Traditional Ceremonies: I believe love is love.

*Vow Writing Support can be a standalone experience, it is not required to have me officiate the ceremony to use this service.

I am ordained via Universal Life Church.

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